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Nichole Rustin-Paschal, Ph.D., J.D.

P.O. Box 7

Gainesville, VA  20156

tel.:    571-261-8529

email: NRP@law-nrp.com

 

 

Wednesday
Jan042012

Case to Watch: Windsor v. United States

Like those of the seniors profiled in Gen Silent, there is a good story here. For over 40 years, Thea Spyer and Edie Winsdor were in a long-term committed relationship. In fact, they’d been engaged since the late 1960s. The couple lived in New York City and was among the first to register their domestic partnership when the state began recognizing such arrangements in 1993. In 2007, Thea and Edie traveled to Toronto to be married. Thea died two years later, having suffered for decades from multiple sclerosis and a recently diagnosed heart ailment.

Edie Windsor, ACLU

As Executor of Thea’s estate, and its sole beneficiary as Thea’s spouse, Edie filed a federal tax return and sent an advanced payment of $500,000 for the estate tax. Having received a partial reimbursement for overestimating the amount of tax owed, Edie then sought reimbursement of the remaining $363,053 estate tax. The IRS denied her request because DOMA, the Defense of Marriage Act passed in 1996, required that federal laws applying to married couples be interpreted only to recognize heterosexual marriages. In other words, since Edie was Thea’s same sex surviving spouse, Edie is not entitled to any federal benefits (from estate tax exemptions to Social Security death benefits and widow’s insurance benefits to taking unpaid leave to care for family members).

Though at least twelve states provide some form of recognition of same sex relationships, those couples are consistently denied the tax benefits afforded heterosexual couples. In fact, partners in same sex marriages must file as single individuals on their federal tax forms, preventing them from taking advantage of certain tax deductions and leading toward confusion about tax credits they are entitled to claim.

Edie, represented by the ACLU and attorneys from the law firm Paul, Weiss, Rifkind, Wharton & Garrison LLP, filed suit in the federal court in New York for a refund of the estate tax she had to pay. Her suit argues that DOMA is a violation of equal protection and thus is an unconstitutional law discriminating against same sex couples. Since filing suit (Edie’s case has not yet been heard), a number of developments have occurred. President Obama has determined that Section Three of DOMA is unconstitutional. Attorney General Eric Holder issued a statement that the Department of Justice would no longer defend the constitutionality of DOMA in court. The House of Representatives, under Speaker John Boehner’s direction and using taxpayer money, hired an outside law firm to support the constitutionality of DOMA in the case against Edie.

State law regulates marriage. New York is one of the states recognizing same sex marriage. However, because of DOMA, Edie’s rights as a surviving spouse are abrogated and her financial security has been damaged simply because the legislation unconstitutionally discriminates between heterosexual and same sex marriages that have been recognized by the state. While striking down DOMA will not create rights to marriage for same sex couples in states where those marriages are not recognized, it will go a long way in ensuring that the federal government does not promote or enable discrimination against same sex couples. The Senate took a step down that road last November in a 10-8 vote in the Judiciary Committee supporting the Respect for Marriage Act (S. 598), which would repeal DOMA. Chairman Patrick Leahy (D-VT) called the vote “a critical step forward in restoring the rights of all lawfully married couples.”

 

 

Monday
Jan022012

Gen Silent and Addressing the Needs of the Aging LGBT Community

Stu Maddux’s new documentary, Gen Silent—streaming for free this week, grapples with why and how traditional resources for elder care are not addressing the needs of the aging LGBT community in Boston, Massachusetts. Maddux tells the story of a number of diverse members of the community, including those of seniors, their family members, and social workers, who are afraid of discrimination in nursing homes and other agencies that should provide them care. The fear is causing them to only seek help when it’s nearly too late. Being pushed back into the closet has detrimental effects, including depression and dying alone—according to the film, nearly 2/3s of LGBT live alone and so are most likely to age alone.

 

                                                                               Gen Silent Trailer O from Stu Maddux on Vimeo.

All of the six seniors, most of whom were in decades long relationships, expressed concern about leaving their homes, where they felt safe and in control for the uncertainty of possible abuse and lack of care in nursing facilities. Some seniors reject a number of nursing homes because they can feel that they are not wanted there before finding one where they could feel at ease. Other seniors try to age in their homes by retrofitting them or building an LGBT community who can help during times of illness.

Gen Silent also touches on the resistance some service providers have to caring for the aging LGBT community. The LGBT Aging Project offers training to help providers recognize their own biases and develop skills for addressing them, including actually saying the words “lesbian,” “gay,” “bisexual,” and “transgendered” for the first time.

The health care and legal disparities facing this diverse community of seniors are documented in The Aging and Health Report: Disparities and Resilience Among Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered Older Adults. The report’s authors recommend that LGBT older adults prepare for aging by writing a will and a durable power of attorney for healthcare. They also advise advocating for extending the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) to those not related by blood or marriage and extending benefits under Social Security, Supplemental Security Income (SSI), Medicare and Medicaid to same sex partners.

There are a number of  national resources available for aging LGBT individuals, including organizations such as the National Resource Center on LGBT Aging, SAGE, AARP Pride, and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force: Aging. These organizations provide information about advocacy efforts, financial planning, health care policy, and local resources.

In Virginia, where same sex marriage is not recognized by state law, there are some resources available to help LGBT adults prepare for the aging process. Among them are the Virginia Commonwealth University’s Virginia Center on Aging and INOVA’s The Joanne G. Crantz, MD Geriatric Resource Center; general information about resources for aging in Virginia can be found at the Virginia Department for the Aging.

Gen Silent is an important film that raises awareness about an increasingly significant issue in elder law and LGBT communities; Gen Silent helps us help senior LGBT individuals age with pride and security.